Tuesday, July 25, 2006

Online Dating: Four Reasons Why Men Should Be Online (And one reason why they shouldn't)


Men, if you don't already have women chasing after you every day, then you should be dating women online. Here are the Four most compelling reasons why men should be seeking out and meeting women online, and one reason why they absolutely shouldn't.

1) Online dating is the most amazing gift to men invented since woman herself. (Well, most women.)

Think about it for a moment. For one small flat fee (and sometimes for no fee at all) you can scope out women, learn what they like, what they don't like, check out their picture and actually begin swapping emails, IMs and talking with them.

Here's what you don't have: To get dressed up; to gas up your car; to spend hours of your prime time; to buy drinks for people you dont' know; to fail in public.

On balance, it's a pretty convenient and effective method of meeting women.

2) There are MILLIONS of women ACTIVELY LOOKING for you online. They are not coy "bar chicks" or girls with boyfriends. They are what we call in marketing, HOT LEADS. Smoking hot! Because they are coming out to meet you half way. You just have to learn how to become the bait they are seeking.

Now, there are two basic reasons women are there on line. Some are there to look for a guy to marry. Some are looking for a guy to just hook up with.

But that pretty much explains guys, too. So no matter what reason you're looking for women, there are women looking for you, too.

3) Women online range from not-so-hot to super-hot. I have personally hooked up with some of the most beautiful women of my life from online. And any cursory tour through one of the better sites will show you this is not a side option for single guys its a MUST DO!

So the attractiveness of women online pretty much mirrors the attractiveness of women anywhere, right? Well, that's to be expected. But when you are at a bar or club trying to meet women, you only have a few dozen to choose from at most. And everyone is going to be hounding the hot ones.

Online, you've got those MILLIONS to choose from. What's even better is that you can search for them by location, income, religion. . . all this stuff you can get out of the way before you even say Hi.

4) Online dating is THE place to practice your game. Whether you still remember awkward Junior High School dances like it was yesterday, or you effortlessly meet and hookup with women all the time, Online is the place to practice without personal rejection.

There are lots of great techniques for meeting and seducing women. Whatever "way" you are, or whatever "technique" you choose, you'll have more time to practice it online. Whatever you do, learn from your mistakes as well as your successes. Not everything is going to work every time, and you shouldn't expect it to.

One other great advantage to online dating is that you don't have to fear rejection. These women you approach don't know you. Your friends aren't there to watch you crash and burn. So, you can take risks that you wouldn't normally take if you were talking to a woman in person.

And that means you'll succeed more than in person, too.

Maybe.

But there is one reason NOT to go online to meet women: Being closed minded. You are going to be exposed to lots more women online than you've ever seen before. If you are closed minded when you write or talk with them, you're sure to fail. If you are not willing to get out of your rut and try something different, to learn something new, then you are sure to fail. If you don't learn how to listen and read women's profiles properly, to truly understand what they mean in their profiles or emails to you, you are sure to fail.

So, don't be closed minded. Online dating is the single best method for meeting women today if you approach it properly. Done wrong, it can lead to the same results you've always had, and that may not be what you want.

Happiness Myths


There's a myth that a lot of guys fall for that causes a lot of undue stress and anxiety. It's the myth that if only I could find a girlfriend I will be happy. Don't fall for this guys!

Guess who is responsible for your happiness? You are. You must learn to be happy and contented with yourself. You are the only one who can make you happy. You just can't expect women that you become involved with, to be responsible for your happiness.

It's really sad that a lot of men live in misery, thinking that they will be so happy when a woman comes into their life to make them happy. Trust me, you can be happy while you are waiting for that special to come into your life. And, if you find the right woman, she will add to that happiness.

Well, I hope you get my point. Don't spend your life waiting around for someone to come into your life to make you happy. Make yourself happy and don't depend on others to do this. And remember, "happiness comes from within."

Unique Way to Meet Single Women

To pull this off, buy you a bag of Hershey's Kisses. Then when you see a girl you are attracted to, approach her and have a hidden kiss in your hand, and say this, "Would you mind if I give you a kiss?"

Of course, she is going to be a little startled or reluctant to answer. Then you hold out your hand and say, "Here's the kiss I wanted to give you."

This is a good tactic for you to break the ice with a stranger. She will think that your technique to meet her is unique. Plus, you both can have a good laugh over it. Try this guys, you'd be surprised how well it can work for you.